Friday, September 30, 2011
Sunday, September 25, 2011
BOYS!!! Lets Graduate to Men Please!
http://shopping.yahoo.com/articles/yshoppingarticles/682/the-gq-fall-2011-trend-report/
I have become continuously more and more frustrated by the way some men dress...no their not men, their boys. If your in your twenties and still wear the same juvenile crap that you did in high school, I'm sorry but its time for a reality check.
Don't even try and tell me "its because its comfortable" thats a load of s#@! there are penalty of things for you to wear that don't make you look like your balls are being held hostage by your skinny jeans. You aren't 17 anymore lets not dress like we are. Ok? Ok.
If you want to be taken seriously then present yourself that way. No self respecting woman wants to seriously date a guy who still wears graphic tees and jeans all the time. Change it up once in a while. A button down with levi's 501's and a sports coat would be a breath of fresh air. Or how about a real coat? Not just a down jacket, I'm talking legitimate mens double breasted topcoat! Sounds gay you say? Well its not. Its Sexy!!
Oh and if I see another pair of faux glasses I will seriously hunt you down and smash them for your own sake. You know who you are....watch yourself.
So boys what you wear definitely matters. unfortunatly the time has come for you to graduate from the whole tees and jeans deal. Lets get some style going here! Really you guys people (especially women) judge you just as harshly as they judge women by what they wear, sad? Yes. Is it going to change? No.
So lets get a little educated on whats available to you! So many men just assume that fashion is something that is regulated to just women and gay men. Its not!! Woopee!! You all have so much more to choose from, especially in this day and age. The menswear category is expanding to include so much more than your standard suit, jeans, polo and kakis.
So boys lets graduate to men!
A great first point of reference for your new fashionable direction is GQ's website. Go. Check. Then purchase! Much love my Manfriends! We ladies love a well dressed gentleman.
I have become continuously more and more frustrated by the way some men dress...no their not men, their boys. If your in your twenties and still wear the same juvenile crap that you did in high school, I'm sorry but its time for a reality check.
Don't even try and tell me "its because its comfortable" thats a load of s#@! there are penalty of things for you to wear that don't make you look like your balls are being held hostage by your skinny jeans. You aren't 17 anymore lets not dress like we are. Ok? Ok.
If you want to be taken seriously then present yourself that way. No self respecting woman wants to seriously date a guy who still wears graphic tees and jeans all the time. Change it up once in a while. A button down with levi's 501's and a sports coat would be a breath of fresh air. Or how about a real coat? Not just a down jacket, I'm talking legitimate mens double breasted topcoat! Sounds gay you say? Well its not. Its Sexy!!
Oh and if I see another pair of faux glasses I will seriously hunt you down and smash them for your own sake. You know who you are....watch yourself.
So boys what you wear definitely matters. unfortunatly the time has come for you to graduate from the whole tees and jeans deal. Lets get some style going here! Really you guys people (especially women) judge you just as harshly as they judge women by what they wear, sad? Yes. Is it going to change? No.
So lets get a little educated on whats available to you! So many men just assume that fashion is something that is regulated to just women and gay men. Its not!! Woopee!! You all have so much more to choose from, especially in this day and age. The menswear category is expanding to include so much more than your standard suit, jeans, polo and kakis.
So boys lets graduate to men!
A great first point of reference for your new fashionable direction is GQ's website. Go. Check. Then purchase! Much love my Manfriends! We ladies love a well dressed gentleman.
Friday, September 16, 2011
Saturday, September 10, 2011
No Compromise.
The other night I was talking to my mom and of course as is the way with all girl friends the talked turned to boys. As some know I am rather notoriously boy crazy, just a whiff of cologne can do me in, and this fact has caused both my mom and grades some distress in the past. So she is rightfully torn, she of course wants me to date but is rather concerned about me being able to keep my head. Of all people she knows what can happen when you get to "in love" with a boy.
I understand and believe me I worry about it. I whenever there has been the possibility of a relationship I tend to freeze up and over think everything. I don't want to get carried away and forget for even a moment what it is I want in life.
I used to want nothing more than to be one of those disgustingly cute couples you see on the street. Then as I got older and experienced a few half-relationships I realized that a relationship will never make me fully happy. I need to be happy without a man, if I can find my happiness without one then when I find one it wont matter what the end result is.
My dreams are what make me happy. Knowing that I am doing everything I can to get there and seeing my path forward is comforting. Being able to focus on my dreams and the way forward makes me unbelievably happy. Knowing that I have never sacrificed a anything for what I want and never will is what keeps me going. Somedays its the only thing that keeps me going.
So when my mom voiced her fears that I might loose sight of those dreams because of a guy I had an epiphany.
There is no way I would give my dreams up for anybody, I'm too selfish in that respect. My dreams will always come first and I could never love nor date anyone who expected otherwise.
I understand and believe me I worry about it. I whenever there has been the possibility of a relationship I tend to freeze up and over think everything. I don't want to get carried away and forget for even a moment what it is I want in life.
I used to want nothing more than to be one of those disgustingly cute couples you see on the street. Then as I got older and experienced a few half-relationships I realized that a relationship will never make me fully happy. I need to be happy without a man, if I can find my happiness without one then when I find one it wont matter what the end result is.
My dreams are what make me happy. Knowing that I am doing everything I can to get there and seeing my path forward is comforting. Being able to focus on my dreams and the way forward makes me unbelievably happy. Knowing that I have never sacrificed a anything for what I want and never will is what keeps me going. Somedays its the only thing that keeps me going.
So when my mom voiced her fears that I might loose sight of those dreams because of a guy I had an epiphany.
There is no way I would give my dreams up for anybody, I'm too selfish in that respect. My dreams will always come first and I could never love nor date anyone who expected otherwise.
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Long Time
So its been a while since my last post and I believe its time to begin again...unfortunately I have class so this first post shall be unsatisfingly short. I am back in the city and this year has had some rather beautiful beginning moments. Whether it be luck, karma or fate things have occurred that are either going to create amazing moments or leave me in the dust feeling slightly trampled. So more to come later.
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